Comments on: How to Succeed Trying Again to Make Your Relationship Work

By: ben

ben — Mon, 06 Feb 2012 07:38:32 +0000

I have been having issues with my baby mama is not a faithfull girlfriend but i still love her very much but its really hard to forgive her i have tried another relationship but i know i still love my sons mother but she dose not have some qulities i want in a wife she is not inteligent at all.plz what do i do.

By: D CIRO

D CIRO — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 16:53:25 +0000

WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES IT ALL IN HOW YOU CORRECT THEM 16 YEARS
IS ALONG TIME TO JUST WALK AWAY FROM TO DAUGHTERS 13@7yrs old
they are my life.I HAVE NEVER BEEN A ANGEL 1ST TO ADMIT NEVER RAN FROM THAT I DID CHEAT THATS WHERE IT ALL STARTED THAT WAS MY
BIGGEST MISTAKE I NEVER COULD GET OVER THE GUILT MYSELF HONESTLY DONT EVEN KNOW WHY I DID IT,BUT CAME CLEAN AND TRYED TO CORRECT IT THEN THE TIT FOR TAT STARTED I HAVE CUST OF MY TO GIRLS AND HAVE BEEN RAISEING THEM FOR 2.5YRS ON MY OWN I DONT DATE DONT HAVE THE WANT TOO.WE HAVE BEEN TRYN THE FEW MONTHS TO PUT THINGS BACK TOGETHER WE DO LOVE ONENOTHER SO TO ME ITS WORTH THE FIGHT OR WAIT NEVER GIVE UP KEEP THE FAITH IF ITS MENT TO BE IT WILL BE!

By: D CIRO

D CIRO — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 16:42:02 +0000

THIS IS SO TRUE,AND VERY HELPFULL YOU HAVE TO WORK HARD ON
IT AND SHOW ITS WORTH IN THE END..

By: colette cave

colette cave — Sun, 06 Nov 2011 02:07:15 +0000

i been going thru with my fincee for 2 yrs but everything went good afirst year but after that time i leave to another country for time being it all boil down that sumthing aint right to me like i could tell his face expression but he ended up told me that he did .my mouth went dropp open and couldn’t believe what he was really tell me about the party having sex in the batheroom ,it broke myheart so much and i couldn’t barley breathe or say a word to him i cry alot and i couldn’t get no sleep nor eat anything al that time beofre i was excited to visit him but i couldnt face him or give him a chance at the same time i really loves him with all my heart but it hurts me the most and i told him ,”i will never ever hurt you as the way you hurt me “.frum there ikeep on thinking all the time tha he will contnue to cheat on me but i am not around him ,he ask me to marry him and i say “yes”, then pu a ring on my finger ,i do halp him alot of his paper to get a visa snd everything i do for him i never cheat ona man befo in my entire life or how it will ever to trust another person again ,so yet still not sure yet but i already told my fiancee that i forgive him but in my mind tellin me that he will not believe me of waht im saying to him his own word “I DON’T CARE”,i couldnt facew him because i’m afraid of letting it go and i kept it inside me all that time so he blaiming me for nothing that i did n’t do i don’t know if he trying to use me for a fool or to make fun at me cause i’m always unhappy and left out

By: Ang

Ang — Thu, 03 Nov 2011 16:47:31 +0000

I met a man 14 years ago and fell in love with him, we were both in marriages that were not going anywhere. Our love from the beginning was strained due to hurting the other partners and there were children involved. We also started to run a business together, the stress that was put on us was immense but we managed to stay together, but my partner took a lot of his anger out on me in the relationship, after five years I then started to resent this anger and withdrew from him. He then realised that I had done that and tried to win my feelings back, he supported me through lots of problems with my wayward teenage daughter and other family matters and I appreciated him for that, also my partner and I got in a lot of debt, some of the debt he kept from me and didnt tell me, this has been going on for years, in the end I closed down and wouldnt let him in at all and moved out a month ago, I miss him so much and realise that I loved him so much , we have a strong bond but we are both so broken about splitting up. He has a casual girlfriend in which I dont blame him as I kept refusing his love and told him to find someone else in my anger and hurt , but now I am absolutely gutted and would love to start all over again but this time with no debt and not living beyond our means. I have never felt a passion and strong heartfelt hold as I have for this man.

By: joan

joan — Sat, 14 May 2011 18:13:32 +0000

I fell in love with a really wonderful person and just as life was getting good he started to show me the abandonment parts of his life… even when i have nothing to do with his abandonment issues he blames them on me…Your artilce was beyond excellent… i want to use some of your suggestions to try to make it work.,. but am i not being realisitc about what can change with in him to make it work!!!

By: RJ

RJ — Mon, 02 May 2011 14:49:45 +0000

After an 18 month relationship, we broke up for about a month and decided to go back. Things are so different now. The magic we once had is now gone, he seems to be very distant. I want this to work, but don’t quite know how.

By: Matt

Matt — Tue, 01 Mar 2011 07:24:37 +0000

I really like this article, I was in my relationship for three and a half great years and she decided to break it off out of the blue and told me that she is not happy anymore and that I’m not changing. We met up a few days later and had a good long talk and in the end it was still a little unclear what needed to happen but we were able to get everything off our chests in what went wrong and what we want in the future. She wanted to take it very slow and start off sometime by meeting up for coffee, however I called her every few days and dragged on conversations with her and talked more about other peoples problems and the things I was changing already, which was a mistake as I realize she wants to see the change eventually and not hear about it all the time. She told me a couple weeks later a lot of things that contradicted her self and what she had been saying earlier and told me that she loves me but she is not in love with me anymore and that she has not thought about me at all the last few weeks. I tried to explain to her that I have damaged things in the relationship so bad over the last year that I can understand yes she may not be in love with me anymore but I have to change the things that I have been doing the last year and have been doing to my self due to depression and laziness and getting to comfortable in a routine that was unhealthy in all aspects. I miss her and love her more than she will ever know, I’ve changed a lot of things in the last month and am very proud of my self for the changes that I have made for my self. The last conversation we had left things kind of open but I do feel she said a lot of things out of anger cause I was not listening to what she wanted which was time and space, both for her and me to recognize the things I need to change for my self and not for her as she believed that I was changing just to be what she always wanted however I am making the changes now due to the rude awakening she gave me and the power she has given me to find my true self and to be the man that I know I am and have always wanted from my self. I really hope when I call her again in time that we start off slow as friends like she wanted and grow together back in to a relationship and become stronger after this and never look back. I really need to hope that things can work out for us and never give up both on change and on her.

By: Unknown

Unknown — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 15:10:14 +0000

I love my girlfriend and we are or were engaged but we hit a big bump in our relationship and now she cant seem to forgive me
she now i lover her and she says she loves me to
idk what to do idk what to think
the pain is big and my heart is weak
i want you know that i want us to be
but what would it be if we cant see
i love you baby and im sorry i did
i just dont wanna lose you your the best thing that ever happened to me
and i want us to get married and be happy
like we use to before everything happened
i truly do miss you
i need you baby
.-= Unknown´s last blog ..By: tammy =-.

By: tammy

tammy — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 23:09:55 +0000

i love this article. ima talk to my boyfriend about everything.we have been going out on and off for 5 months , and we both love eachother so muchh.we just started goin back out again.but lately our relationship has been on the rocks and im trying my best to make it stronger cause im scared of losin him hes the only one i can say i want to have a family with and want to spent the rest of my life with.its just really hardd.