Comments on: Train Your Mind to Lead You to A Relationship http://www.lovecoachblog.com/trainyourmind/ Love Coach Gives Advice and Help for Singles, Dating, Relationships, Marriage and Breaking Up Thu, 07 Aug 2008 23:42:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Christine http://www.lovecoachblog.com/trainyourmind/#comment-955 Christine Thu, 30 Mar 2006 14:33:43 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/trainyourmind/#comment-955 Hey, wouldn't we all love to have our cake and eat it too? What is going on here stems from low self esteem. You deserve to have someone to yourself. Maybe if you go out and date it will give him the incentive to chose or face losing you to someone else. I experienced something similar, and the other woman went on to improve her life EMENSLY... according to his words she was unmotivated,etc,etc. I was only glad to help. Don't know where he is at now!Not as great as she is I presume! Hey, wouldn’t we all love to have our cake and eat it too? What is going on here stems from low self esteem. You deserve to have someone to yourself. Maybe if you go out and date it will give him the incentive to chose or face losing you to someone else. I experienced something similar, and the other woman went on to improve her life EMENSLY… according to his words she was unmotivated,etc,etc. I was only glad to help. Don’t know where he is at now!Not as great as she is I presume!

]]> By: MS http://www.lovecoachblog.com/trainyourmind/#comment-954 MS Sat, 04 Feb 2006 23:37:30 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/trainyourmind/#comment-954 I have been involved with a guy for a little over a year and he has been in a long-term relationship with his girlfriend for about 8 yrs now. When we first met, he initially told me about his relationship with her and he did not know what he wanted to do (leave or stay) with the situation and if I wanted to not get involved with him then he will understand. He also said he knows it seems selfish but if a woman is not willing to stick with him through his situation then it wasn't meant to be. From there, I decided to continue dating him-everything was great, we spent lots of time together and we were seen in public places together, dinner, movies, the whole nine I also met some of his family members (they're great) It was almost like he wasn't in a relationship with her at all. However, several months later, he started spending less time with me and his only explanation is he's been so busy with his businesses he doesn't have much spare time anymore. We see each other much less and we definitely talk on the phone less. I have grown to love him and I haven't met anyone else who can top him.(He treats me like a queen) He is the ideal man I would love to have a relationship with, but I feel sad because he is in this relationship (and by the way they live together) This is a very difficult situation for me I have never been in an extrarelationship affair before and we seem perfect for each other. We are both two highly educated individuals (PHd's) and we both own our own businesses. Now it's getting to the point where I am very curious about his girlfriend and I have made a point to see what she looks like (she is nothing like I expected, I expected much more) I have been involved with a guy for a little over a year and he has been in a long-term relationship with his girlfriend for about 8 yrs now. When we first met, he initially told me about his relationship with her and he did not know what he wanted to do (leave or stay) with the situation and if I wanted to not get involved with him then he will understand. He also said he knows it seems selfish but if a woman is not willing to stick with him through his situation then it wasn’t meant to be. From there, I decided to continue dating him-everything was great, we spent lots of time together and we were seen in public places together, dinner, movies, the whole nine I also met some of his family members (they’re great) It was almost like he wasn’t in a relationship with her at all. However, several months later, he started spending less time with me and his only explanation is he’s been so busy with his businesses he doesn’t have much spare time anymore. We see each other much less and we definitely talk on the phone less. I have grown to love him and I haven’t met anyone else who can top him.(He treats me like a queen) He is the ideal man I would love to have a relationship with, but I feel sad because he is in this relationship (and by the way they live together) This is a very difficult situation for me I have never been in an extrarelationship affair before and we seem perfect for each other. We are both two highly educated individuals (PHd’s) and we both own our own businesses. Now it’s getting to the point where I am very curious about his girlfriend and I have made a point to see what she looks like (she is nothing like I expected, I expected much more)

]]> By: Love Coach Rinatta Paries http://www.lovecoachblog.com/trainyourmind/#comment-953 Love Coach Rinatta Paries Tue, 17 Jan 2006 15:50:46 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/trainyourmind/#comment-953 Erica, I know the issue seems to be that there is a lack of available men in your age group, or that they are preoccupied elsewhere. But that really is not the issue. There are single men and single women in all age groups everywhere, and looking for love. And you don't need many single men - just one right one. The issue is what is it with you that you are not pulling in any men? It's not your looks, your body, your carrier; it's what going on inside of you. Erica, I know the issue seems to be that there is a lack of available men in your age group, or that they are preoccupied elsewhere. But that really is not the issue. There are single men and single women in all age groups everywhere, and looking for love. And you don’t need many single men - just one right one. The issue is what is it with you that you are not pulling in any men? It’s not your looks, your body, your carrier; it’s what going on inside of you.

]]> By: Erica http://www.lovecoachblog.com/trainyourmind/#comment-952 Erica Tue, 17 Jan 2006 15:26:33 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/trainyourmind/#comment-952 Yes, I keep reading about all the positive things we can do, but living outside Washington, D.C. the issue becomes that there are probably 9 single women to every 1 male. To top that off, I am 55 and the men my age continue to chase after the 40 year olds. I am very physically fit, active, and attractive. I go out, but get ignored. What does one do then? Move? :-) Yes, I keep reading about all the positive things we can do, but living outside Washington, D.C. the issue becomes that there are probably 9 single women to every 1 male. To top that off, I am 55 and the men my age continue to chase after the 40 year olds. I am very physically fit, active, and attractive. I go out, but get ignored.

What does one do then? Move? :-)

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