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MEN and WOMEN in RELATIONSHIP or MARRIAGE:
I have a secret to a good relationship that I am about to give you, so read closely. Your partner is not responsible for your happiness. You are responsible for your own happiness. And if you put the responsibility for your happiness on your partner, you will struggle in your relationship.
What are some tools or strategies you use to be successfully responsible for your own happiness?
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Yes – I just wrote an article about this for a website “How to Deal with Your Husband’s Grumpiness During the Holidays” If you focus on someone else’s unhappiness and ignoring the fact that they are making you unhappy because of that situation that you can’t control – you will never be happy. You need to take control of your own happiness. If someone needs help – they will come to you as long as you keep yourself available.
Stop competing with each other. Marriage and relationships were created to balance one another, to help and encourage one another. Look inside yourself, what are your strenghts, what are your weaknesses – your partner should compliment you, and you him. I found that I had to stop focusing on the negative in them and work on the negative in you. I focus on their strengths and help them to see I need that in them – in turn they focus on my strenght. Sometimes I have to point it out to them and some times it takes them a while to see it for themselves. Thats my strategy. They are not responsible for my happiness – this strategy has made me a happier & healthier person!