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Men and women in RELATIONSHIP or MARRIED:
Most couples think their problem is communication. In reality, most couple’s problem is reaction. He says something and she reacts. She says something and he reacts. Nothing can be heard, understood or solved when reacting. Your job for today, if you choose to accept it, is to stop yourself from reacting to your partner.
Think About THIS: If you work on controlling your reactions to your partner, and just can’t stop going there, what are you going to do about that? Are you just doomed to always react about certain issues, or about everything?
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My husband and I call this “listening to hear instead of listening to respond.” It’s only when we forget this approach that we start getting into trouble.
“listening to hear instead of listening to respond” – Love it!