When we first meet someone, the other has an entire lifetime of experience behind themselves, just as we do. The more we spend time together, the more we learn about each other; the nurturing and the destructive. But one cannot survive without the other, just as each face of the coin needs the other. Regardless of the time, i like to enter a fight with the idea that i am on the brink of learning something new about my sweetheart, and when honesty guides my words (no matter how painful) our bond deepens as a result.
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But I think to conclude that therefore it would be best to always talk and get a “fight” over before going to sleep is definitely not the correct conclusion to make.

Of course, if couples are able to talk everything over in a calm, loving, and centered fashion in midst of an argument that would be the optimal solution. And if they would be able to do so before going to sleep, then great.

But, as a men, I know that we often get very stuck and rigid in our arguments which does not often promote a loving conversation in midst of an argument or a fight. And to make a rule or suggestion that arguments or fights should be resolved before bed time can be counterproductive and in some instances even dangerous.

If men get angry and off-centered it is best for them to take a time out and to cool off to get centered before attempting to solve any relationship problems. It is often the attempt to get men to talk when they are angry that contributes to the problem of domestic violence. And if the fight happens to be right before a bed time, I would highly recommend the couple to go to bed rather than to fight through the night.
Yes, your quality of sleep may suffer, but it will be a whole lot better than no sleep at all.
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