Comments on: Painful Relationship? Here’s Pain Relief http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/ Love Coach Gives Advice and Help for Singles, Dating, Relationships, Marriage and Breaking Up Thu, 07 Aug 2008 23:47:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Rose http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-2070 Rose Wed, 26 Mar 2008 10:10:36 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-2070 I'm in a relationship with this guy for 6 months now...but the thing is that he has another girlfriend and he has been with her for 4 and a half years. everything between us are perfect except the fact that he has a girlfriend....he told me that he would leave the girl for me, but he still hasn't. each time he has an excuse. but i know that he loves me...i've tried a few times to end it but i simply can't. i love him to much to let go. i know that he loves me to because he shows me and he comes back to me each time i end the relationship.and i also know that he only has me and the other girl. i'm so confused. what should i do? I’m in a relationship with this guy for 6 months now…but the thing is that he has another girlfriend and he has been with her for 4 and a half years. everything between us are perfect except the fact that he has a girlfriend….he told me that he would leave the girl for me, but he still hasn’t. each time he has an excuse. but i know that he loves me…i’ve tried a few times to end it but i simply can’t. i love him to much to let go. i know that he loves me to because he shows me and he comes back to me each time i end the relationship.and i also know that he only has me and the other girl. i’m so confused. what should i do?

]]> By: Krusty http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1603 Krusty Tue, 01 Jan 2008 08:07:14 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1603 Do we the o/w ever recover from the blow of being dumped for his wife? Do we the o/w ever recover from the blow of being dumped for his wife?

]]> By: katrina http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1623 katrina Wed, 31 Oct 2007 17:03:55 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1623 I know how that goes. two years of playing around and we fell in love with each other. we both tried to end the affair over and over again, he would contact me each time. The sex became loving and the friendship deeper as I tried harder and harder to get away. A call every few weeks gave way to every day from many locations and then unannounced drive-bys and stop-ins when he "had a moment". And then he was out of town and his wife suddenly found his stash of porn. I guess I would have been very upset had it been unlawful material but otherwise I am nuetral about porn. She kicked him out of the house upon his return home and he submitted to days of counceling to maintain his marriage. I was shocked that the masculine man I "knew" submitted to this and told me how ashamed he was for the porn. A week prior to this discovery by his wife, he told me how safe he felt with me emotionally and physically and how much he loved me. Since we hadn't seen each other in almost a month, I did believe him. After the discovery of porn, I felt sickened. I realized that no matter how much he felt safe and loved with me, he was choosing a person he could not function with sexually and who would shame him for his desires. I asked him to never call me or stop by again unless he was truly free to do so. I acknowledged that he was choosing a path that I would not but that I understood he was doing for his own reasons (he is a non-practicing Catholic and she is a fundamentalist Catholic). But I feel a lack of respect for him all of the sudden and I am scared he will call me at work or stop by again. We live in a very small town and he is very well known. I worry about this getting out. I just want to go on with my life. I suppose it takes time like everything else.But right now this seems un-healable. I know how that goes. two years of playing around and we fell in love with each other. we both tried to end the affair over and over again, he would contact me each time. The sex became loving and the friendship deeper as I tried harder and harder to get away. A call every few weeks gave way to every day from many locations and then unannounced drive-bys and stop-ins when he “had a moment”. And then he was out of town and his wife suddenly found his stash of porn. I guess I would have been very upset had it been unlawful material but otherwise I am nuetral about porn. She kicked him out of the house upon his return home and he submitted to days of counceling to maintain his marriage. I was shocked that the masculine man I “knew” submitted to this and told me how ashamed he was for the porn. A week prior to this discovery by his wife, he told me how safe he felt with me emotionally and physically and how much he loved me. Since we hadn’t seen each other in almost a month, I did believe him. After the discovery of porn, I felt sickened. I realized that no matter how much he felt safe and loved with me, he was choosing a person he could not function with sexually and who would shame him for his desires. I asked him to never call me or stop by again unless he was truly free to do so. I acknowledged that he was choosing a path that I would not but that I understood he was doing for his own reasons (he is a non-practicing Catholic and she is a fundamentalist Catholic). But I feel a lack of respect for him all of the sudden and I am scared he will call me at work or stop by again. We live in a very small town and he is very well known. I worry about this getting out. I just want to go on with my life. I suppose it takes time like everything else.But right now this seems un-healable.

]]> By: Krusty http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1612 Krusty Fri, 05 Oct 2007 07:56:19 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1612 I am still not over being stunned,and seem to carry with me this over whelming bitterness.I lose.His wife and Him win.And 7 fold.I will never be released from what now has become a curse.What I did came back to land on me 7x greater.I am so publically humilliated. I ended up to be the fool.I was being used and a need for a screwed up married man,as a garbage can.I ended up the one deceived,I became attatched,He never was. I hate having to be so honest,but I feel like such an utter most bottom feeding bozo. I ran into His Wife and Daughter a few weeks ago,sitting in another goofballs truck,looking like the same desperate slut,doing the same thing I did with her husband and the daughters father.They drove right infront of me,sitting in this other guys truck the wife got out and went into the store,and their daughter shook her head at me with a discusting smirk and I knew where I stood.I am known as a bottomfeeding desperate wanna be.I was willing to take a chance hoping to have the life,I saw his wife had.I would like to tell anybody willing to risk their wellbeing on a man,a married man,you better be ware,the reprecucussions are brutle.I am a living example of what most of the time,happens to the other woman by a married man.Please acknowledge this,very few o/w win,and a wife will take her husband back and she usually wins.He still loves her,and their marriage is better for it. The wife can thank us douche bags,for making their marriage better I am still not over being stunned,and seem to carry
with me this over whelming bitterness.I lose.His wife
and Him win.And 7 fold.I will never be released from
what now has become a curse.What I did came back to land on me 7x greater.I am so publically humilliated.
I ended up to be the fool.I was being used and a need
for a screwed up married man,as a garbage can.I ended
up the one deceived,I became attatched,He never was.
I hate having to be so honest,but I feel like such an
utter most bottom feeding bozo.
I ran into His Wife and Daughter a few weeks ago,sitting in another goofballs truck,looking like
the same desperate slut,doing the same thing I did with her husband and the daughters father.They drove
right infront of me,sitting in this other guys truck
the wife got out and went into the store,and their daughter shook her head at me with a discusting smirk
and I knew where I stood.I am known as a bottomfeeding
desperate wanna be.I was willing to take a chance
hoping to have the life,I saw his wife had.I would
like to tell anybody willing to risk their wellbeing
on a man,a married man,you better be ware,the reprecucussions are brutle.I am a living example of
what most of the time,happens to the other woman by
a married man.Please acknowledge this,very few o/w
win,and a wife will take her husband back and she usually wins.He still loves her,and their marriage is
better for it.
The wife can thank us douche bags,for making their marriage better

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]]> By: Alex http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1620 Alex Wed, 15 Aug 2007 02:22:34 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1620 It's a great tip. I can see how it works great for everyone. Thanks for your generosity sharing this tip openly to everyone. It’s a great tip. I can see how it works great for everyone. Thanks for your generosity sharing this tip openly to everyone.

]]> By: feelingflirty http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1632 feelingflirty Tue, 24 Jul 2007 05:24:53 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1632 My advice is don't stay in a painful relationship. Life's too short to stay stressed 24/7. My advice is don’t stay in a painful relationship. Life’s too short to stay stressed 24/7.

]]> By: Raj http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1615 Raj Mon, 09 Jul 2007 10:26:42 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1615 Hi Well i believe these are good techniques hope it will work for everyone who are suffering pain from their partner Hi

Well i believe these are good techniques hope it will work for everyone who are suffering pain from their partner

]]> By: wow powerleveling http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1625 wow powerleveling Fri, 15 Jun 2007 15:36:49 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1625 I do believe this article is write for me! srry.Because I am hurt by my partner nowadays. She really made me headache. But i'll try to make her understand me. However,i'll try.I don't care much whether it works for me. I do believe this article is write for me!
srry.Because I am hurt by my partner nowadays.
She really made me headache.
But i’ll try to make her understand me.
However,i’ll try.I don’t care much whether it works for me.

]]> By: Brenda http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1594 Brenda Wed, 11 Apr 2007 18:46:57 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/pain-relief/#comment-1594 I was wondering about a relationship I'm in where my boyfriend does not tell me he loves me! We have been involved for 8 months now and things are really good but I feel I need to be told he loves me! Should I give him time and just let it happen naturally? I was wondering about a relationship I’m in where my boyfriend does not tell me he loves me! We have been involved for 8 months now and things are really good but I feel I need to be told he loves me! Should I give him time and just let it happen naturally?

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