Comments on: Being Your Own Person: How to Maintain Your Individuality As You Bond with Another http://www.lovecoachblog.com/maintaining_your_individuality/ Singles, dating, relationship, marriage and breakup help. Must read if you want a conscious, loving relationship. Mon, 06 Feb 2012 07:38:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: Yvetta http://www.lovecoachblog.com/maintaining_your_individuality/comment-page-1/#comment-4420 Yvetta Tue, 13 Sep 2011 19:39:17 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/?p=60#comment-4420 Hello My name is Yvetta and I want to start off by thanking you for the advice you give to people like me...After reading your article;I feel like the paragraph that can best describe me is" Obsessing with each other than self care".I use to be outgoing and I light to everyone's lives , but since meeting my mate a lot of that has changed.I never knew how much I gave myself to him until today..I"m currently 6months pregnant with our child and things in our life aren't going as planned.I know there s going to be frustrating situtations in life that will test you as an indivdual,but i didnt think that it will be this difficult..In result of what life has handed us, Im not happy within my self nor the realtionship.Instead of him being strong for the family I feel like he wants to bail out.I try my best to put him in the right direction, and I still dont see a change. Doing all of these things has resulted me into losing myself, my social life and the interest of being in a relationship.We planned to get married soon, but i don't think i want to spend my life with someone who drains me to the point I let myself go completely. I had some much going for myself before we had meet and now all my dreams and short term goals has depleted; not because of him but because I will be bringing a gift into the world that will need me 24/7 of the time and I don't think that he understands that...I honestly I feel like I'm in prison and I don't know what to do anymore..Ive tried my best to be as positive as possible, but its hard when the person that I rely on doesn't have it in him to be the person that i see, and know he can be. I hope that you can really help me. Thank You, Yvetta Hello
My name is Yvetta and I want to start off by thanking you for the advice you give to people like me…After reading your article;I feel like the paragraph that can best describe me is” Obsessing with each other than self care”.I use to be outgoing and I light to everyone’s lives , but since meeting my mate a lot of that has changed.I never knew how much I gave myself to him until today..I”m currently 6months pregnant with our child and things in our life aren’t going as planned.I know there s going to be frustrating situtations in life that will test you as an indivdual,but i didnt think that it will be this difficult..In result of what life has handed us, Im not happy within my self nor the realtionship.Instead of him being strong for the family I feel like he wants to bail out.I try my best to put him in the right direction, and I still dont see a change. Doing all of these things has resulted me into losing myself, my social life and the interest of being in a relationship.We planned to get married soon, but i don’t think i want to spend my life with someone who drains me to the point I let myself go completely. I had some much going for myself before we had meet and now all my dreams and short term goals has depleted; not because of him but because I will be bringing a gift into the world that will need me 24/7 of the time and I don’t think that he understands that…I honestly I feel like I’m in prison and I don’t know what to do anymore..Ive tried my best to be as positive as possible, but its hard when the person that I rely on doesn’t have it in him to be the person that i see, and know he can be. I hope that you can really help me.

Thank You,
Yvetta

]]> By: Yvetta orji http://www.lovecoachblog.com/maintaining_your_individuality/comment-page-1/#comment-4419 Yvetta orji Tue, 13 Sep 2011 19:35:58 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/?p=60#comment-4419 Hello My name is Yvetta and I want to start off by thanking you for the advice you give to people like me...After reading your article;I feel like the paragraph that can best describe me is" Obsessing with each other than self care".I use to be outgoing and I light to everyone's lives , but since meeting my mate a lot of that has changed.I never knew how much I gave myself to him until today..I"m currently 6months pregnant with our child and things in our life aren't going as planned.I know there s going to be frustrating situtations in life that will test you as an indivdual,but i didnt think that it will be this difficult..In result of what life has handed us, Im not happy within my self nor the realtionship.Instead of him being strong for the family I feel like he wants to bail out.I try my best to put him in the right direction, and I still dont see a change. Doing all of these things has resulted me into losing myself, my social life and the interest of being in a relationship.We planned to get married soon, but i don't think i want to spend my life with someone who drains me to the point I let myself go completely. I had some much going for myself before we had meet and now all my dreams and short term goals has depleted; not because of him but because I will be bringing a gift into the world that will need me 24/7 of the time and I don't think that he understands that...I honestly I feel like I'm in prison and I don't know what to do anymore..Ive tried my best to be as positive as possible, but its hard when the person that I rely on doesn't have it in him to be the person that i see, and know he can be. I hope that you can really help me. Thank You, Yvetta Orji Hello
My name is Yvetta and I want to start off by thanking you for the advice you give to people like me…After reading your article;I feel like the paragraph that can best describe me is” Obsessing with each other than self care”.I use to be outgoing and I light to everyone’s lives , but since meeting my mate a lot of that has changed.I never knew how much I gave myself to him until today..I”m currently 6months pregnant with our child and things in our life aren’t going as planned.I know there s going to be frustrating situtations in life that will test you as an indivdual,but i didnt think that it will be this difficult..In result of what life has handed us, Im not happy within my self nor the realtionship.Instead of him being strong for the family I feel like he wants to bail out.I try my best to put him in the right direction, and I still dont see a change. Doing all of these things has resulted me into losing myself, my social life and the interest of being in a relationship.We planned to get married soon, but i don’t think i want to spend my life with someone who drains me to the point I let myself go completely. I had some much going for myself before we had meet and now all my dreams and short term goals has depleted; not because of him but because I will be bringing a gift into the world that will need me 24/7 of the time and I don’t think that he understands that…I honestly I feel like I’m in prison and I don’t know what to do anymore..Ive tried my best to be as positive as possible, but its hard when the person that I rely on doesn’t have it in him to be the person that i see, and know he can be. I hope that you can really help me.

Thank You,
Yvetta Orji

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