Comments on: How To Let Your Ex Go http://www.lovecoachblog.com/letexgo/ Singles, dating, relationship, marriage and breakup help. Must read if you want a conscious, loving relationship. Mon, 06 Feb 2012 07:38:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: khruzchiev flaris http://www.lovecoachblog.com/letexgo/comment-page-2/#comment-4751 khruzchiev flaris Mon, 30 Jan 2012 12:52:59 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/?p=16#comment-4751 its a wonderfull advice, thanks its a wonderfull advice, thanks

]]> By: chobbi http://www.lovecoachblog.com/letexgo/comment-page-2/#comment-4730 chobbi Fri, 13 Jan 2012 11:20:53 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/?p=16#comment-4730 Hi, I have had a huge dilemma and this has been with me from the last 17yrs. I am in love with a guy from school days. I have always have had very strong feelings about him. We were very close as friends when in school but were not in a gir boy relationship. We however lost touch over the years. we got back in touch due to my intiation around 5 yreas back and we have now moved on to the next level, only on the phone. He has professed he loved me all those years ago and I professed my feelings for him too. Since we live in two different countries we have not been able to meet up. we haven't seen each other in the last 15 years. but when we talk we feel like soulmates. my problem is he has the tendency of just disapearing from my life for days on.. we have the most romantic conversations one day and then he just doesnot respond to my calls or texts for days on .and then he just appears back again and continues his conversation like noothing has gone wrong! the days when he is away like that i go through such depression that I cannot seem to function. i keep wondering if he is ok and what did i do!! and he never gives me an answer to this behavior. I really sometimes feel whether its worth the heartbreak i feel, but then i love him so much that i can't let go.. what do i do?? Hi,
I have had a huge dilemma and this has been with me from the last 17yrs. I am in love with a guy from school days. I have always have had very strong feelings about him. We were very close as friends when in school but were not in a gir boy relationship. We however lost touch over the years. we got back in touch due to my intiation around 5 yreas back and we have now moved on to the next level, only on the phone. He has professed he loved me all those years ago and I professed my feelings for him too. Since we live in two different countries we have not been able to meet up. we haven’t seen each other in the last 15 years. but when we talk we feel like soulmates. my problem is he has the tendency of just disapearing from my life for days on.. we have the most romantic conversations one day and then he just doesnot respond to my calls or texts for days on .and then he just appears back again and continues his conversation like noothing has gone wrong! the days when he is away like that i go through such depression that I cannot seem to function. i keep wondering if he is ok and what did i do!! and he never gives me an answer to this behavior. I really sometimes feel whether its worth the heartbreak i feel, but then i love him so much that i can’t let go.. what do i do??

]]> By: Alexandra http://www.lovecoachblog.com/letexgo/comment-page-2/#comment-4700 Alexandra Mon, 19 Dec 2011 07:00:13 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/?p=16#comment-4700 Hi, I divorced the father of my 5 year old two years ago, we were together 12 years. I feel exactly what you wrote about not being able to let go the good part of him. I still believe he was the one, and having a child together makes it impossible to not keep in touch. I was the one that left the relationship, yet I expected him to fight for us, which he never did. Now I feel he never loved me. I have a new relationship but I feel that since I haven't let go of my ex I am screwing this relationship as well, I feel helpless cause this new guy is really wonderful to me and I can't be reciprocate. Hi,
I divorced the father of my 5 year old two years ago, we were together 12 years.
I feel exactly what you wrote about not being able to let go the good part of him.
I still believe he was the one, and having a child together makes it impossible to not keep in touch. I was the one that left the relationship, yet I expected him to fight for us, which he never did. Now I feel he never loved me.
I have a new relationship but I feel that since I haven’t let go of my ex I am screwing this relationship as well, I feel helpless cause this new guy is really wonderful to me and I can’t be reciprocate.

]]> By: LC http://www.lovecoachblog.com/letexgo/comment-page-2/#comment-4698 LC Thu, 15 Dec 2011 22:38:28 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/?p=16#comment-4698 B-JT It is beautiful that you are trying to change for yourself and no one else. Yes my friend, time is the only one who heals a heartbreak. I broke up with my ex 2 years ago and I still think about him. I am like you, it is very difficult to let go. Times heals but you never forget about that special person. But one thing I will promise you......you will find love again and maybe just maybe better than the one you had with her :-). Good luck! B-JT

It is beautiful that you are trying to change for yourself and no one else. Yes my friend, time is the only one who heals a heartbreak. I broke up with my ex 2 years ago and I still think about him. I am like you, it is very difficult to let go. Times heals but you never forget about that special person. But one thing I will promise you……you will find love again and maybe just maybe better than the one you had with her :-) . Good luck!

]]> By: B-JT http://www.lovecoachblog.com/letexgo/comment-page-2/#comment-4697 B-JT Thu, 15 Dec 2011 20:26:18 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/?p=16#comment-4697 My ex and I where together for almost eight years. We are going through the exact same thing. She broke up with me this past november. I was the guy who did a lot of drinking. This past year was rough for the both of us. We both contributed to the breakup. It is so hard for me to let go of her. I think about her every day all day! I can't go five minutes without thinking about her! But I try to stay positive with the breakup. Over the past month I have been doing a lot of self awareness. I have changed my drinking and changed a lot of my bad habits. I did not change my bad habits for her I changed them because I want to be a better person. I have found out that going to the gym will make you feel better. I understand what you are going through. You want a man who will love, honor and protect the relationship. It took a breakup for me to realize those are the traits I want to have in my next relationship. I want to be that guy who will put the woman first before anything else and value her as a woman. It is just really hard for me to let go! She had a lot of good traits about her that I will never forget. I also know time heals all wounds. It will take me a long time to get over her. She will always have a special place in my heart! My ex and I where together for almost eight years. We are going through the exact same thing. She broke up with me this past november. I was the guy who did a lot of drinking. This past year was rough for the both of us. We both contributed to the breakup. It is so hard for me to let go of her. I think about her every day all day! I can’t go five minutes without thinking about her! But I try to stay positive with the breakup. Over the past month I have been doing a lot of self awareness. I have changed my drinking and changed a lot of my bad habits. I did not change my bad habits for her I changed them because I want to be a better person. I have found out that going to the gym will make you feel better. I understand what you are going through. You want a man who will love, honor and protect the relationship. It took a breakup for me to realize those are the traits I want to have in my next relationship. I want to be that guy who will put the woman first before anything else and value her as a woman. It is just really hard for me to let go! She had a lot of good traits about her that I will never forget. I also know time heals all wounds. It will take me a long time to get over her. She will always have a special place in my heart!

]]> By: Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries http://www.lovecoachblog.com/letexgo/comment-page-2/#comment-4691 Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries Mon, 12 Dec 2011 18:27:39 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/?p=16#comment-4691 Kristina, go to my new blog and read through <a href="http://www.getrelationshipsright.com/category/womens-tips" rel="nofollow">the tips for women here</a>. Many of the tips there will give you ideas for what to do to feel better and let go. Kristina, go to my new blog and read through the tips for women here. Many of the tips there will give you ideas for what to do to feel better and let go.

]]> By: Kristina http://www.lovecoachblog.com/letexgo/comment-page-2/#comment-4687 Kristina Thu, 08 Dec 2011 06:52:14 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/?p=16#comment-4687 I've just tried everything. We dated 11 months and everything was perfect. Then one random day he messages me we have nothing in common and we can't date. That's impossible when he was in love with me and we dated 11 months. He never gave me the real reason. It's been 5 months and we don't talk or look at each other. I switched out of one class I had with him just because when people talked to me he'd take them away from me. I'm still hurt honestly. No matter what I do I can't forget. I don't even want to date anybody. Normally when I date someone else I heal fast. But I don't want to here. I have no hope left. How do I heal?? I’ve just tried everything. We dated 11 months and everything was perfect. Then one random day he messages me we have nothing in common and we can’t date. That’s impossible when he was in love with me and we dated 11 months. He never gave me the real reason. It’s been 5 months and we don’t talk or look at each other. I switched out of one class I had with him just because when people talked to me he’d take them away from me. I’m still hurt honestly. No matter what I do I can’t forget. I don’t even want to date anybody. Normally when I date someone else I heal fast. But I don’t want to here. I have no hope left. How do I heal??

]]> By: Y-NY http://www.lovecoachblog.com/letexgo/comment-page-2/#comment-4682 Y-NY Thu, 01 Dec 2011 17:29:39 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/?p=16#comment-4682 My ex and I seemed to be very much in-love. However there were some clear obstacles he was facing in his life. I was supportive, loyal, committed, loving, patient and kind. Still with all of this our relationship failed. I think it mostly had to do with him not valuing the woman I am. I tried everything to protect our relationship. It obviously wasn't enough. It's hard for me to let go of him because he has so many good qualities that I truly love. Our relationship ended because we reached a point where we realized he was not putting me and our relationship first. His priorities were elsewhere (friends and drinking - mostly). I'm at a point in my life where I don't want to meet someone new. I want him and I feel so heartbroken that i'll take him with all of his imperfections if this feeling would just go away. Only I won't be satisfied... I deserve to be in a relationship with a man that will love, honor and protect me and our relationship. It does feel better to write this down. Get it all out. Remember my self-worth. They say time heals all wounds. I guess I'll have to give it time. My ex and I seemed to be very much in-love. However there were some clear obstacles he was facing in his life. I was supportive, loyal, committed, loving, patient and kind. Still with all of this our relationship failed. I think it mostly had to do with him not valuing the woman I am. I tried everything to protect our relationship. It obviously wasn’t enough.
It’s hard for me to let go of him because he has so many good qualities that I truly love. Our relationship ended because we reached a point where we realized he was not putting me and our relationship first. His priorities were elsewhere (friends and drinking – mostly).
I’m at a point in my life where I don’t want to meet someone new. I want him and I feel so heartbroken that i’ll take him with all of his imperfections if this feeling would just go away. Only I won’t be satisfied… I deserve to be in a relationship with a man that will love, honor and protect me and our relationship.
It does feel better to write this down. Get it all out. Remember my self-worth.
They say time heals all wounds. I guess I’ll have to give it time.

]]> By: Mike http://www.lovecoachblog.com/letexgo/comment-page-2/#comment-4655 Mike Thu, 24 Nov 2011 11:34:31 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/?p=16#comment-4655 I wish that was so but she even told me that she doesn't have many reasons to be compassionate right now and that she changed her ways after previous relationships before ours, I talked to my family about it and they told me if I felt that way in my heart then I was right to speak my mind that way and maybe what I said was right to because sometimes people just don't like hearing the truth. So for me to think anything positive about her right now, the only thing I can think of is she did say that she can forgive in time but right now there isn't a lot of positive things to think of her at this moment. I wish that was so but she even told me that she doesn’t have many reasons to be compassionate right now and that she changed her ways after previous relationships before ours, I talked to my family about it and they told me if I felt that way in my heart then I was right to speak my mind that way and maybe what I said was right to because sometimes people just don’t like hearing the truth. So for me to think anything positive about her right now, the only thing I can think of is she did say that she can forgive in time but right now there isn’t a lot of positive things to think of her at this moment.

]]> By: Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries http://www.lovecoachblog.com/letexgo/comment-page-2/#comment-4653 Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries Thu, 24 Nov 2011 07:03:03 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/?p=16#comment-4653 Rose, coaching works well in terms of help in letting go. Here's a link to check out coaching if you are interested: http://www.getrelationshipsright.com/claritysession Rose, coaching works well in terms of help in letting go. Here’s a link to check out coaching if you are interested: http://www.getrelationshipsright.com/claritysession

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