Dating Tip: What’s Dating For

by Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries on May 15, 2009

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dating_tipDating is not grow-the-relationship process. It is a getting-to-know-each-other-and-see-if-we-fit-process. This getting to know you phase last from 3 to 6 months. During this time you should not be falling in love. You can fall in like, lust and enjoyment of each other, but not love.

There will be plenty of time for love later, if the two of you are a right fit for each other.

Follow this and you will avoid uncessesary drama and heartbreak and find the right partner faster.


Wolf Edge October 3, 2009 at 11:46 pm

oh btw. she still is single, he still has yet to do anything, but i feel like an ass to ask her out when she seems interested in him. WHAT TO DO!!!!????

Wolf Edge October 3, 2009 at 11:44 pm

I agree, I love being friends. That to me is the best part of the relationship, however I’m a gamer at heart so anything after that i just fall apart and don’t know how to say “I think you’re an great friend, but I would like to be more then that.” I.E. whats happening now.
A friend of mine, who i have known for about 5 years now, just started hanging out a whole bunch with me, that’s cool, but i’ve always liked her. I always give her advice, and vise versa. Recently she was dating…well a jerk, she even told me in her words that she was his “beck and call bitch.” I advised her that she should not date him because she would just end up hurting herself. she did listen to me.
She also has this interest in a guy that well….im not to sure about, he sounds nice, but doesn’t seem interested. she told me that he puts his phone on silent because “he doesn’t like to hear it ring.” and she’s always upset lately because she cares for him but he shows no interest.
I could really care less about him, but mostly its him that’s stopping me from asking her out, hell i can’t even ask her out on a proper date without feeling all….nervous and shook up about it. Tried that tonight, said “hey wanna grab some burgers tonight, ill pay.” did not use the word date…. worse, i just could not ask her out….. i hate myself right now…. any advice?

Dennis June 24, 2009 at 6:22 pm

I really liked your blog thank you for sharing!

Nataliya77 June 21, 2009 at 1:47 pm

I have another opinion. All depends on personal psychological tipe. For example, exist people, who can fall in love after two dates. And I observed such situations.

Cameron Sharpe May 25, 2009 at 11:02 pm

All you mentioned are true but sometimes, LOVE is TOO STRONG to control your feelings. You may have reasons to engage yourself into a relationship such as this – having a bf or gf older or younger than you are but the thing is, it’s all about the commitment and the chemistry of handling a good relationship. These are natural reasons but there’s always a deeper basis once you are in that relationship. Just a thought. Thanks for the blog :)


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