Dating is not grow-the-relationship process. It is a getting-to-know-each-other-and-see-if-we-fit-process. This getting to know you phase last from 3 to 6 months. During this time you should not be falling in love. You can fall in like, lust and enjoyment of each other, but not love.
There will be plenty of time for love later, if the two of you are a right fit for each other.
Follow this and you will avoid uncessesary drama and heartbreak and find the right partner faster.