http://www.lovecoachblog.com/coachingjodi_1/ Love Coach Gives Advice and Help for Singles, Dating, Relationships, Marriage and Breaking Up Thu, 07 Aug 2008 23:52:46 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/coachingjodi_1/#comment-943 Deborah Mon, 20 Mar 2006 23:26:46 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/coachingjodi_1/#comment-943 Unavailable men are human, yes, but being human hardly qualifies someone for partnership. This is a very important subject - attracting the attached who present themselves as available. Don't blame the victim by calling women who attract these male duds "clinkers." And please don't discount this issue with platitudes about the "rest falling into place" and so on. Unavailable men are human, yes, but being human hardly qualifies someone for partnership. This is a very important subject - attracting the attached who present themselves as available. Don’t blame the victim by calling women who attract these male duds “clinkers.” And please don’t discount this issue with platitudes about the “rest falling into place” and so on.

]]> http://www.lovecoachblog.com/coachingjodi_1/#comment-942 wanda Wed, 18 Jan 2006 17:31:48 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/coachingjodi_1/#comment-942 these unavailable men are human beings too - its not all that complicated - I think one should just make a wonderful life for oneself be happy in your own existence- be confident normal and proud of what you are and can offer to this world - select your friends carefully and the men you date - identify the ones that never qualify eg.drug addicts alchoholics and unavailable men such as men who are abnormal in character and eccentric about their ways -(a divorced man is as human as a divorced woman.)its not so much about being divorced its more about the person's character.and a woman who attracts clinkers is as much a clinker herself.She has to clean her act first and formost.. and the rest will fall in place.Learn to love your own company and enjoy being single - just flow with life and dont try to control things make the right choices -take care of now and the future will take care of itself- and life keeps getting better and better if you choose it that it will- its up to us really.falling in love and being loved is not all that complicated - it happens naturally - just let go and it will come to you if you are worth loving. these unavailable men are human beings too - its not all that complicated - I think one should just make a wonderful life for oneself be happy in your own existence- be confident normal and proud of what you are and can offer to this world - select your friends carefully and the men you date - identify the ones that never qualify eg.drug addicts alchoholics and unavailable men such as men who are abnormal in character and eccentric about their ways -(a divorced man is as human as a divorced woman.)its not so much about being divorced its more about the person’s character.and a woman who attracts clinkers is as much a clinker herself.She has to clean her act first and formost.. and the rest will fall in place.Learn to love your own company and enjoy being single - just flow with life and dont try to control things make the right choices -take care of now and the future will take care of itself- and life keeps getting better and better if you choose it that it will- its up to us really.falling in love and being loved is not all that complicated - it happens naturally - just let go and it will come to you if you are worth loving.

]]> http://www.lovecoachblog.com/coachingjodi_1/#comment-941 traci Tue, 17 Jan 2006 05:35:45 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/coachingjodi_1/#comment-941 i am going through the same things , i think i will try this approach..i will stay tuned to find out how all this is working..good luck to you!! i am going through the same things , i think i will try this approach..i will stay tuned to find out how all this is working..good luck to you!!

]]> http://www.lovecoachblog.com/coachingjodi_1/#comment-940 Head2Reality » Reply to my Love Coach #1 - Attracting the right crowd Sat, 14 Jan 2006 20:43:52 +0000 http://www.lovecoachblog.com/coachingjodi_1/#comment-940 [...] My desire to become attractive picture or no picture is what Coach Rinatta and I are working on this week. She had asked me to pretend that I am attracting unavailable men on purpose and asked me describe what that is like. [...] […] My desire to become attractive picture or no picture is what Coach Rinatta and I are working on this week. She had asked me to pretend that I am attracting unavailable men on purpose and asked me describe what that is like. […]

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