Love Coach Blog

Are you just starting your journey through divorce or have been on the divorce road for a while? Divorce is a difficult, fearful journey, and you should not have to go it alone. But many people do.

I can’t think of a situation more painfully gut-wrenching than impending divorce. When you are going through something like this, you almost need to be carried, as your own legs often won’t carry you willingly forward.
And that is what is often lacking for people going through divorce - a community of people who are going through the same experience. The experience of having to face the reality that your marriage is about to dissolve and that you are going to have to face life – and in many cases parenting – alone.

That is why I am creating a Divorce Support Group,
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What’s wrong with your relationship or with your lack of relationship? How miserable are you about what’s wrong? What if what’s wrong brought you happiness instead of misery? Try this: next time you see something is wrong, say “Hmm, I don’t like that. What I would like instead is ….” Take a good long time to describe what you would like instead and bask in the deliciousness of it. You will feel good.

What we perceive is what we become. Are you sure you see what really is? Question your perceptions. Ask yourself “what else might be going on here to cause this situation?”

Are you afraid?

Ask yourself: Is it happening, or is it something I am afraid might happen because it has happened to me before? This is how you will know whether your fear is founded or unfounded, and whether you should be afraid, back up and protect yourself, of open your heart despite fear and forge forward into a relationship.