Love Coach Blog

What’s wrong with your relationship or with your lack of relationship? How miserable are you about what’s wrong? What if what’s wrong brought you happiness instead of misery? Try this: next time you see something is wrong, say “Hmm, I don’t like that. What I would like instead is ….” Take a good long time to describe what you would like instead and bask in the deliciousness of it. You will feel good.

What we perceive is what we become. Are you sure you see what really is? Question your perceptions. Ask yourself “what else might be going on here to cause this situation?”

Are you afraid?

Ask yourself: Is it happening, or is it something I am afraid might happen because it has happened to me before? This is how you will know whether your fear is founded or unfounded, and whether you should be afraid, back up and protect yourself, of open your heart despite fear and forge forward into a relationship.

You can’t change another person, so don’t try. You can however change yourself to change your relationship or even go from single to being in a relationship. The kind of change that makes real difference is the change on the inside. Today, change into someone who remembers that everything works out in the end, and be more calm and less reactive to stress and see what that changes in your relationship.