Love Coach Blog

Recently a client asked me how she would know if she was in a good relationship. If she was doing a good job at her work, she would get promoted. If she was doing well in school, she would get good grades. But if she was doing well in relationships, well, what would she get?

The answer to this question may seem beyond obvious – you would have love, of course, one might say. But typically, people can’t tell whether they are in a good relationship or not. Can you?

You can learn to tell if you are in a good relationship. You don’t have to wait and see if you and your partner will make each other happy or miserable down the road. No matter what stage of the relationship you are in, you can take its pulse right now and be able to tell if it’s thriving, sick and needs help, or if it’s beyond help and needs to end.

Interestingly, your feelings are not always a good barometer of whether you are in a good relationship or not. That’s crazy, isn’t it? I mean, isn’t love all about how you feel?
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