Comments on: How to Become “Baggage Free” After Divorce

By: Kathleen

Kathleen — Sun, 20 Mar 2011 08:57:17 +0000

My last relationship just ended, I thought I had the baggage covered, our styles seemed great but I did not act on asking enough questions first and then did not want to accept that he only wanted a sexual relationship. I need a couch for sure! Thank you. K

By: phon

phon — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 06:55:47 +0000

Thanks so much for sharing. I am going through a difficult time in my life and found your website to be the most helpful.

By: Jan

Jan — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 16:17:54 +0000

I'm so glad I found this article. My posts this week around all about how to get rid of the pain & baggage associated with my divorce so I can move on in a healthy way. I'll try some of your tips. Jan’s last blog post..Unfiltered Update - Part 1

By: Love Coach Rinatta

Love Coach Rinatta — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 20:55:09 +0000

Kate and Sharon, thank you for your comments.

By: Sharon Wilson

Sharon Wilson — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 23:23:33 +0000

Great post. Step 5 is spot on. Too often people don't evaluate what they need in a relationship. Sharon Wilson’s last blog post..Intuition For The Entrepreneur Who Wants to Live Her Soul’s Purpose and Prosper™

By: kate

kate — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 19:53:18 +0000

Hi Rinatta,
I think you’re right, if you can’t say it to the person, writing it will help a lot in releasing your emotions, or your baggage..
This article is really a big help, especially to those who still haven’t overcame their divorce. Though I haven’t been in that situation, but I think having been in a bad relationship is just the same as being divorced.
Well, thank you for sharing this, and good luck to your blog.

kate’s last blog post..Divorce and Impact on children

By: Love Coach Rinatta

Love Coach Rinatta — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 00:15:25 +0000

Tina: that is so true! Everyone has a relationship pattern and if we don’t examine what ours is, we are going to repeat it. Which means same person, different body.

Dick: Nice of you to pass the article on. I am sorry to hear that you too have suffered the pain of divorce.

By: Dick Richards

Dick Richards — Sat, 14 Mar 2009 03:57:01 +0000

Thanks for this Rinatta. Having been divorced myself, I recognize this as sound advice and have passed it on to a friend.

By: Tina T

Tina T — Fri, 13 Mar 2009 21:06:46 +0000

I like what you say about becoming baggage free. I know a lot of women who thought that they only needed to be married to a different person to end their problems, but they never looked at what really made the first marriage fail. Of course they went on to repeat many of the same mistakes since the problems went beyond having married the wrong person.